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|  There are really two very different (and important) aspects
to the 'conversations with women' topic:
1. The HOW.
2. The WHAT.
THE HOW
Most guys want to know 'what to talk about' with women.
It only makes sense that you should talk about things that
women are interested in... right?
Well... partially.
It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever
topic you're talking about in the RIGHT WAY.
In other words, if you don't understand HOW to carry on a
conversation that creates ATTRACTION, then it really
won't matter WHAT you talk about... because the woman
you're talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.
The HOW of conversation includes (but is not limited to):
-Your body language
-Eye contact
-The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
-Flirting
-Sending mixed messages
-Directing the conversation
-Dealing with common questions and topics
...and many other things.
My point is that if you're running into a lot of
'uncomfortable silences', nervousness, and other usual
challenges, then you probably need to get the HOW
handled before the WHAT.
THE WHAT
With that said, there are several topics that are GREAT
to discuss with women.
But instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do
yourself a favor and THINK for a minute.
What topics do women PAY to hear about?
Hint: Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soap operas,
nighttime dramas, the fashion channel... etc.
If you think about it, the answer to this question is
rather obvious.
For whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:
-Drama
-Conflict
-Romance
-Famous people and their lives
So... it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation
with a woman about these topics.
Here are a few ideas:
1. Play amateur psychologist to the stars.
Talk about how someone famous is doing something really
stupid, then psycho-analyze them.
For instance... right now, Michael Jackson is something
like two hundred million dollars in debt. Even though
he makes about twenty million dollars a year, he somehow
manages to blow it all and then some. He has spent an
unimaginable amount of time and money on plastic surgery
and skin bleaching... and he reportedly just spent around
seven hundred grand digitally darkening his skin tone in
a recent video.
This situation is all kinds of BEGGING to be picked apart
with a fine-toothed critical mind.
It's also PREGNANT with humor opportunities.
2. Find an interesting-looking group of people and guess
what's going on.
Look around you, and find a couple sitting at a table
that looks like they're on their first date.
Then start making fun of how the guy is acting, how he's
dressed, his posture, or whatever. Talk about how the
woman is thinking that he's a dork and how he's not
getting any, no matter how many compliments he gives
her.
Analyzing what's going on with a close group of others
is big fun, and women love it.
3. Make fun of someone famous.
Talk about how a super model is too skinny, or how Ozzy
has killed all his brain cells and what a shame it is that
he's on TV broadcasting it to millions of viewers.
Make fun of Mariah Carey for gaining weight, being put in
the loony bin, and putting out a sucky movie.
All you have to do is read a few gossip magazines to get
all kinds of great stuff to make fun of.
It's fun, it's funny, and it's a great way to talk like
you're all that.
4. Talk about other people's love lives.
Talk about the problems that others are going through
when it comes to love and romance, then volunteer
completely ridiculous theories about what's going on.
Mention a friend you had who broke up with his girlfriend
because she gained weight, then after you've told the
story, make up a random theory about how women who gain
weight are actually lesbians.
But make sure it's funny, whatever you invent.
...I think you can 'feel me'.
The point here is that women are NATURALLY fascinated and
drawn to certain topics... so USE THEM.
The REAL benefit of talking to women about topics that
really interest them is that you can USE ALL THE OTHER
IDEAS THAT YOU'RE LEARNING while you're talking!
You can AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION as the conversation goes
on... as long as you know what else to do as you talk.
Oh, by the way...
Topics to avoid: Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess,
computers, comic books, Star Wars, monster trucks, and
NSYNC. NEVER talk about topics that might really
freak a woman out, or topics that make you look like the
biggest loser alive in the beginning. You'll create BAD
VIBES that will make any attraction that you've created
INSTANTLY disappear. Others to really avoid include talking
negatively about yourself, talking about how desperate you
are or how long it's been since you've been on a date,
asking if she likes you or if you're her 'type'... and any
other WUSS-BAG topic that makes you look insecure and
needy.
Remember, the key to success with women is creating a
powerful emotional ATTRACTION between you and her.
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