The art of seduction is a pretty functional skill – if you have someone to use it on. Relationship proficiency, as in how to keep a good thing going, is also a very practical and helpful talent to possess. Again, though, you need someone for your expertise to pay off.
We can keep going down the list of things better in twos; I’m sure you can think of a few right now, but many women aren’t finding men to pair up with. At least not the types they are looking to date or marry.
So, where do you look when it’s time to pick up a man? Can you find a man near you?
Where the Men Gather
The best part about being on the hunt for single, attractive men is that they’re also on the hunt for you. The problem: men think like men. They’re not necessarily capable of thinking like women. So this means they’re sticking to the local “guy” scene to pick up on girls. Yes, that’s right: the same locales you try to avoid like the plague is where the men are flocking to find you.
Single men are all over. You can find them in:
- Bars
- Nightclubs
- Grocery stores
- The beach
- The gym
- Neighborhood gatherings (think festival setting)
- And pretty much everywhere that you’re not
Let’s step outside of the box for a minute. There are a few valid reasons that you’ve been avoiding checking these places. Guys at the bar and club are drunk and obnoxious. Guys in the gym or on the beach are too sweaty or far too into themselves. And any guy picking up on women at a grocery store is probably married, shopping for arugula on his honey-do list.
In order to find these men, it is actually best to catch them off guard at locations they are not expecting to find women. This not only gives you the upper hand, but it allows you to see the guys for who they are, minus the cologne, hair gel and 50 squirts of breath spray.
1: The Hardware Store
This is a great location for meeting single men. The best part: you can quickly spark up a conversation by pretending you need his help in finding or understanding something even if you don’t. This way you’ll be the damsel in the distress, what guy can resist that?
2: The Dog Park (Or just Park)
True. Some guys do expect to meet women here. That’s why they bring their cute little puppies. But the level of guy is usually exponentially higher than what you’ll find at those seedy locations. This is where the nice guys are.
3: A Sporting Event
You’ll definitely find plenty of men at a sporting event. Almost every town has a local high school football team or a minor league baseball team. “Accidentally” bumping into a cute guy at the concession stand is a great ice breaker.
4. The Apple Store
This may at first sound like an oddball kind of place to meet someone but thing about it; these stores are casual and fun. It’s the type of place where people feel comfortable talking to one another, besides everyone knows that the coolest people are those who buy Apple.
5. Online
The internet is a treasure trove of hot guys and it’s easy to find some great men in your city or town. If you have never tried online dating you might want to start with some of the free ones, like Plenty of Fish.
Finding men isn’t as hard as you may have thought. There are so many different ways and places in which you can approach attractive men who have the qualities you are looking for in a long term mate. And never forget that sometimes love fines you when you least expect it.